You know what grinds my gears?
when someone self inserts themselves into problems that doesn't involve them and then make make a fuss about it when someone calls them out on it.
you know what grinds my gears?
when they lack the self awareness (Due to upbringing/doesn't care about how their attitude comes across to others/overall a sociopath) to just stop and re-access the situation for a moment before continuing to run their mouth.
you know what grinds my gears?
when they just constantly crosses your values in the guise of communication and then gets upset when the other party responds to their shitty take.
you know what grinds my gears?
when you don't even realize that you have done something wrong and expect the other party to apologize and kiss your ass just to validate your feelings.
you know what grinds my gears?
when someone can provide safe space to everyone but me.

